I’m going to start by saying I know that you are unique. We are all different and have different experiences and stories. Even genetically speaking we’re are all different but I have to say generally speaking most of us men are wired the same way. There are outliers that for sure are different and this just may not apply to them. There’s no right or wrong this is just my take on my life how I see it.
I have bred some dogs in my life. I know some guys that have been breeding dogs for as long as I’ve been alive. The more game driven the dogs pedigree the more animal raw instincts the dogs usually have. Pig hunting dogs it’s not uncommon for the female to turn on the male before he mounts her. It’s weird because if the bitch is ready on the 13th day of her cycle . You can gently touch her back and her tail will link up and move to the side. Instinctually she is making herself available. So she may turn on the male. Its her way of testing if he is a dominant male, ensuring she will have dominant pups and therefore ensuring the line for years to come. She doesn’t know why she does it no other dog taught her. It’s in her source code . It’s the males job to perry this attack hold her down and do the deed. If he doesn’t assert him self he could be scarred for life or even killed . Some breeders take precautions for these reasons.
What I’m saying is if the male doesn’t assert his dominance nobody is happy . He could be scarred or dead and the female doesn’t get knocked up which ultimately leads to the end of that bloodline or extinction of the species. Or the male could go find a lesser female and the female could find a more dominant male. Or they never find a match . No good scenarios really.
To me this just shows why a man has got to be a man and a woman has got to be a woman . A man that doesn’t make his woman feel like a woman or vice versa will ultimately lead to the destruction of the relationship. I’m talking about instincts here. I’m not talking about some sexist shit here , like women cooking and cleaning .don’t get it confused. Remember the female lions are the baddest lions there are. I’m saying we all have to satisfy the instincts that we are programmed with in our DNA .
